Reliable protocols were established for investigating asymmetric distributions of 6‐(7‐nitrobenz‐2‐oxa‐1,3‐diazol‐4‐yl)amino‐caproyl (C6NBD) phospholipids in the plasma membrane of boar sperm cells under physiological conditions. A method based on fluorescence resonance energy transfer was used to ensure that incorporation of the fluorescent phospholipids into the sperm proceeded via monomeric transfer. The total amount of incorporated phospholipid fluorescence and the proportion of translocated phospholipid fluorescence were determined by flow cytometric analysis before, and after, dithionite destruction of outer leaflet fluorescence. Catabolism of incorporated fluorescent phospholipids was blocked with phenylmethylsulfonyl fluoride. Membrane‐damaged cells were detected with impermeant DNA stains, thereby enabling their exclusion from subsequent analyses of the flow cytometric data, whence it could be demonstrated that the labeled phospholipids were incorporated only via the outer plasma membrane leaflet in living sperm cells. Phospholipid uptake and internalization was followed at 38°C. After 1 hr of labeling, about 96% of the incorporated C6NBD‐phosphatidylserine, 80% of C6NBD‐phosphatidylethanolamine, 18% of C6NBD‐phosphatidylcholine, and 4% of C6NBD‐sphingomyelin were found to have moved across the plasma membrane bilayer to the interior of the spermatozoa. These inward movements of fluorescent phospholipids were ATP‐dependent and could be blocked with sulfhydryl reagents. Movements from the inner to the outer leaflet of the sperm plasma membrane were minimal for intact fluorescent phospholipids, but were rapid and ATP‐independent for fluorescent lipid metabolites. The described method enables, for the first time, assessment of changes in lipid asymmetry under fertilizing conditions. Mol. Reprod. Dev. 53:108–125, 1999. © 1999 Wiley‐Liss, Inc.